#11 Fat White Chicks
#11 Fat White Chicks
Black men and fat, ugly white women. Ebony and Ivory living together in perfect harmony. You’ve seen the couples. I don’t know about you, but when I see it, it grosses me out. It’s not the thought of interracial dating that disturbs me. As I’ve said before, I am open to dating women of all ethnic backgrounds. Nor is it the thought of being with an overweight person. Hell, I like a woman with some curves. It’s the fact that these white women that you see with these Black men are homely as fuck. I mean trailer trash, hillbilly looking bitches. They don’t have an inkling of class about them. So why would a brother would even get involved with a woman like that?….We’ll I’ve got my own hypothesis about it. I’ve came close to being that Black man of a few occasions, but each time I chose not to go there. I’m a pretty brave guy. There aren’t too many things that scare me. But one fear I do have is that I will end up being one of those Black men you see with that sloppy whale on his arm. That’s real talk. There’s no other way to say it.
There is a common conception that Black men look at white woman as the epitome of beauty. It’s fueled by movies and the media. They depict that Black men place white women on this high pedestal. They are to be worshipped and desired. We’ll I totally disagree with that idea. I personally think that dark skinned East Indian/South Asian woman are lay claim to that pedestal, but that’s another blog for another day. I believe that a good number of those guys are quality brothers that have never gotten the love and attention from Black woman. After years of rejection and disenchantment with bitter Black women, they opt to settle for these unattractive, but affectionate white women. Hey after all, it’s not what outside of a person, but inside. Right? Isn’t that what were taught from the age of 5. That we should not be judgmental and base our opinions of a person on the content of their character? Many these white chicks are treating these brothers so well, that they are enamored with each other. Happier than a pig in shit.
Since, my adolescence, I have seen many a Black male spit game a white women. Some attractive, some not. And every time, there is much disdain from the Black women present. I previously mentioned my friend “Money”. We’ll I can’t recall the last time Money dated a Black woman. It’s been at least 10 years. He’s muscular, well mannered, and financially well off. And could give less than a damn about dating a Black woman. Some where along his path of life, there must have been a life changing encounter. I don’t know what it was, and I have never asked him. Maybe I should. But he’s one of those good brothers that chose the other side of the fence… Then there is Yellow Jacket. And before his marriage, he was involved with the very definition of trailer trash white woman. She was divorced. Had several kids. WHITE kids. Just imagine the looks when he would take them too the park or the movies. He settled, big time. She SO did not deserve to be with him. But Yellow Jacket let his guard down. She took him through an emotional roller coaster that I think permanently fucked him up. In these cases, and others I’m sure, white female superiority was NOT the issue.
If fact, I am going to turn this white womanhood superiority concept on it’s head. Could it be that many white women look at Black men as the epitome of beauty? Our demeanor. Our presence. Our aura. As Georgia Me, said. We are “NigGods”.
Ever since the days of slavery, white women and Black men have had a forbidden attraction toward each other. Acting on those urges could mean death or community ostracization, respectively. Socio-economic disparities prevent some white women of high economic levels from pursing Black men. Rich, white women from privileged backgrounds may indeed want to date a Black man. However, if that man is not financially stable enough to give her the lifestyle she is accustomed too, she is not going to lower herself. She is high maintenance and high society. She will create relationships with white men on her same social level. How many high class or upper-middle class white women do you know that date outside of their race? I haven’t seen too many. Yet, they still secretly lust for a Black man. Don’t’ misunderstand me; YES there are Black people (men & women) who are in the higher classes of society. But you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that there is a greater number of Black Americans living in the lower social statuses. That’s reality. Disenfranchisement due to a whole host of reasons. As there are also underprivileged white people. It is these white women who are on the same social level who connecting with these brothers. Middle class, lower middle class and poor individuals looking for love and finding meaning with each other. In addition, overweight white women may also feel undesired by their white male counterparts. It’s been said that white men prefer their women slender. Black men prefer a woman with a voluptuous body. So a woman that is considered chubby by a white guy may be just what a Black man wants. Therefore, these thick chicks are drawn to Black men because they feel they will be accepted for who they are.
Let’s briefly regress back to that blog on Black women. In regards to Black men, Black women take a “What can he do for me?” stance. They look at his material possessions and think that he is financially fit. That because he has a nice car, jewelry and fine clothes, he is a worthy mate. Of course, none of those things actually translate into wealth. What they need to be asking is does he have any investments? Is he educated? Etc. It’s ignorance. Consequentially, these Black women end up dealing with some bums. Increase that exponentially and you have a whole lot of bitter bitches. Those same bitter bitches that didn’t give that good brother a chance. That’s when those trailer trash hoes step in and take those good men right from under the Black women’s feet. Yes some of those white broads are chickenheads too. They end up pregnant with a deadbeat boyfriend. Shit, some of those bitches are so dumb. They are just happy to have a “Black baby”. I’m not saying that white women end up with the responsible Black men ALL of the time. But some of those men have to be.
Are these brothers settling for less? Of course they are. They deserve better. Loneliness is a muthafucker, though. If that fat white broad is treating you like a king, what more can you ask for. If there is good sex, companionship and she’s a down ass chick? It’s a formula that ends up with many Black women missing the boat. They shouldn’t be bitter, they only have themselves to blame. Like I said at the beginning, I really fear becoming that Black man. I harbor so much resentment for Black women due the lack of consideration from them. Then I turn around and get noticed by the portly white chicks. Some classier than others. But still “Ms. Piggy”. I’m not one to dis someone right from jump street. So I’ll engage in conversation with these women. More often than not it's actually good conversation. Those convos lead to dates. But I pull back and become distant before the courtship gets too heavy. It’s not the women who initiate this. It’s ME. I could let things go farther, but I’d feel like a failure to myself. An outcome like that would mean that I let every bitch who did me wrong win. They succeeded in making me settle for less than the woman I desire. No fuckin’ way can I let that happen. I have too much pride. Other brother’s however, don’t have the same resolve as me. Who knows how long MY resolve will last. But next time you’re at the mall and you see that brother with that fat white chick. Don’t be so quick to hate. Think about the circumstances that brought them together. Think about the happiness you wish you had.
Black men and fat, ugly white women. Ebony and Ivory living together in perfect harmony. You’ve seen the couples. I don’t know about you, but when I see it, it grosses me out. It’s not the thought of interracial dating that disturbs me. As I’ve said before, I am open to dating women of all ethnic backgrounds. Nor is it the thought of being with an overweight person. Hell, I like a woman with some curves. It’s the fact that these white women that you see with these Black men are homely as fuck. I mean trailer trash, hillbilly looking bitches. They don’t have an inkling of class about them. So why would a brother would even get involved with a woman like that?….We’ll I’ve got my own hypothesis about it. I’ve came close to being that Black man of a few occasions, but each time I chose not to go there. I’m a pretty brave guy. There aren’t too many things that scare me. But one fear I do have is that I will end up being one of those Black men you see with that sloppy whale on his arm. That’s real talk. There’s no other way to say it.
There is a common conception that Black men look at white woman as the epitome of beauty. It’s fueled by movies and the media. They depict that Black men place white women on this high pedestal. They are to be worshipped and desired. We’ll I totally disagree with that idea. I personally think that dark skinned East Indian/South Asian woman are lay claim to that pedestal, but that’s another blog for another day. I believe that a good number of those guys are quality brothers that have never gotten the love and attention from Black woman. After years of rejection and disenchantment with bitter Black women, they opt to settle for these unattractive, but affectionate white women. Hey after all, it’s not what outside of a person, but inside. Right? Isn’t that what were taught from the age of 5. That we should not be judgmental and base our opinions of a person on the content of their character? Many these white chicks are treating these brothers so well, that they are enamored with each other. Happier than a pig in shit.
Since, my adolescence, I have seen many a Black male spit game a white women. Some attractive, some not. And every time, there is much disdain from the Black women present. I previously mentioned my friend “Money”. We’ll I can’t recall the last time Money dated a Black woman. It’s been at least 10 years. He’s muscular, well mannered, and financially well off. And could give less than a damn about dating a Black woman. Some where along his path of life, there must have been a life changing encounter. I don’t know what it was, and I have never asked him. Maybe I should. But he’s one of those good brothers that chose the other side of the fence… Then there is Yellow Jacket. And before his marriage, he was involved with the very definition of trailer trash white woman. She was divorced. Had several kids. WHITE kids. Just imagine the looks when he would take them too the park or the movies. He settled, big time. She SO did not deserve to be with him. But Yellow Jacket let his guard down. She took him through an emotional roller coaster that I think permanently fucked him up. In these cases, and others I’m sure, white female superiority was NOT the issue.
If fact, I am going to turn this white womanhood superiority concept on it’s head. Could it be that many white women look at Black men as the epitome of beauty? Our demeanor. Our presence. Our aura. As Georgia Me, said. We are “NigGods”.
Ever since the days of slavery, white women and Black men have had a forbidden attraction toward each other. Acting on those urges could mean death or community ostracization, respectively. Socio-economic disparities prevent some white women of high economic levels from pursing Black men. Rich, white women from privileged backgrounds may indeed want to date a Black man. However, if that man is not financially stable enough to give her the lifestyle she is accustomed too, she is not going to lower herself. She is high maintenance and high society. She will create relationships with white men on her same social level. How many high class or upper-middle class white women do you know that date outside of their race? I haven’t seen too many. Yet, they still secretly lust for a Black man. Don’t’ misunderstand me; YES there are Black people (men & women) who are in the higher classes of society. But you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that there is a greater number of Black Americans living in the lower social statuses. That’s reality. Disenfranchisement due to a whole host of reasons. As there are also underprivileged white people. It is these white women who are on the same social level who connecting with these brothers. Middle class, lower middle class and poor individuals looking for love and finding meaning with each other. In addition, overweight white women may also feel undesired by their white male counterparts. It’s been said that white men prefer their women slender. Black men prefer a woman with a voluptuous body. So a woman that is considered chubby by a white guy may be just what a Black man wants. Therefore, these thick chicks are drawn to Black men because they feel they will be accepted for who they are.
Let’s briefly regress back to that blog on Black women. In regards to Black men, Black women take a “What can he do for me?” stance. They look at his material possessions and think that he is financially fit. That because he has a nice car, jewelry and fine clothes, he is a worthy mate. Of course, none of those things actually translate into wealth. What they need to be asking is does he have any investments? Is he educated? Etc. It’s ignorance. Consequentially, these Black women end up dealing with some bums. Increase that exponentially and you have a whole lot of bitter bitches. Those same bitter bitches that didn’t give that good brother a chance. That’s when those trailer trash hoes step in and take those good men right from under the Black women’s feet. Yes some of those white broads are chickenheads too. They end up pregnant with a deadbeat boyfriend. Shit, some of those bitches are so dumb. They are just happy to have a “Black baby”. I’m not saying that white women end up with the responsible Black men ALL of the time. But some of those men have to be.
Are these brothers settling for less? Of course they are. They deserve better. Loneliness is a muthafucker, though. If that fat white broad is treating you like a king, what more can you ask for. If there is good sex, companionship and she’s a down ass chick? It’s a formula that ends up with many Black women missing the boat. They shouldn’t be bitter, they only have themselves to blame. Like I said at the beginning, I really fear becoming that Black man. I harbor so much resentment for Black women due the lack of consideration from them. Then I turn around and get noticed by the portly white chicks. Some classier than others. But still “Ms. Piggy”. I’m not one to dis someone right from jump street. So I’ll engage in conversation with these women. More often than not it's actually good conversation. Those convos lead to dates. But I pull back and become distant before the courtship gets too heavy. It’s not the women who initiate this. It’s ME. I could let things go farther, but I’d feel like a failure to myself. An outcome like that would mean that I let every bitch who did me wrong win. They succeeded in making me settle for less than the woman I desire. No fuckin’ way can I let that happen. I have too much pride. Other brother’s however, don’t have the same resolve as me. Who knows how long MY resolve will last. But next time you’re at the mall and you see that brother with that fat white chick. Don’t be so quick to hate. Think about the circumstances that brought them together. Think about the happiness you wish you had.
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