#27 Vasecto – ME?
#27 Vasecto – ME?
I mentioned in a previous blog that I’m becoming more and more dismayed with the idea of fatherhood. At 30, I have no desire for being a parent. I feel like I haven’t even begun to experience life, and yet I’m disgruntled that my life so far has felt unfulfilled. It’s almost a phobia for me. I’ve intentionally avoided sexual relationships because I am deathly afraid of an un-expectant pregnancy. More so than a lot of these females out here, so it seems.
This disproportional number of single mothers is enough to drive a person crazy. I really want to know what was going through these females’ heads when they decided to fuck these men who aren’t around anymore. Was it lust? Did they fall for his lies? Was she simply a ho? Every woman I meet that has kids, I just want to ask them, “What where you thinking?” Did you assume God was gonna step in and prevent the pregnancy?! What I hate even more so, is that lame excuse that “it was meant to happen”. It was God’s will…No bitches. It’s simple biology. Under most circumstances: Sperm + Egg = Fertilization. Flat out. And unless you take the necessary pre-emptive strikes, the result will be the same. I’m the type of guy that believes most mistakes are preventable. I don’t put much stock into faith or divine intervention. I have to be in control of the situation. Birth control and condoms give me little comfort. There’s always the chance of a product default or human error. A vasectomy seems like my only option. So I did a little research…
From Engenderhealth.org
What is vasectomy? Vasectomy is a minor operation that is usually done at a doctor's office or at a clinic. You are awake during the surgery, which usually takes no more than 30 minutes. First, the hair is clipped from the scrotum. The doctor injects a local anesthetic into the skin of your scrotum to numb it. Then the doctor makes one or two small cuts in the skin of the scrotum through which the tubes are gently lifted out. The doctor cuts the tubes, and may remove a small piece of each. The cut ends are tied or sealed with electric current. The openings in the scrotum are closed with small stitches. After a short rest (usually half an hour) you can go home.
I mentioned in a previous blog that I’m becoming more and more dismayed with the idea of fatherhood. At 30, I have no desire for being a parent. I feel like I haven’t even begun to experience life, and yet I’m disgruntled that my life so far has felt unfulfilled. It’s almost a phobia for me. I’ve intentionally avoided sexual relationships because I am deathly afraid of an un-expectant pregnancy. More so than a lot of these females out here, so it seems.
This disproportional number of single mothers is enough to drive a person crazy. I really want to know what was going through these females’ heads when they decided to fuck these men who aren’t around anymore. Was it lust? Did they fall for his lies? Was she simply a ho? Every woman I meet that has kids, I just want to ask them, “What where you thinking?” Did you assume God was gonna step in and prevent the pregnancy?! What I hate even more so, is that lame excuse that “it was meant to happen”. It was God’s will…No bitches. It’s simple biology. Under most circumstances: Sperm + Egg = Fertilization. Flat out. And unless you take the necessary pre-emptive strikes, the result will be the same. I’m the type of guy that believes most mistakes are preventable. I don’t put much stock into faith or divine intervention. I have to be in control of the situation. Birth control and condoms give me little comfort. There’s always the chance of a product default or human error. A vasectomy seems like my only option. So I did a little research…
From Engenderhealth.org
What is vasectomy? Vasectomy is a minor operation that is usually done at a doctor's office or at a clinic. You are awake during the surgery, which usually takes no more than 30 minutes. First, the hair is clipped from the scrotum. The doctor injects a local anesthetic into the skin of your scrotum to numb it. Then the doctor makes one or two small cuts in the skin of the scrotum through which the tubes are gently lifted out. The doctor cuts the tubes, and may remove a small piece of each. The cut ends are tied or sealed with electric current. The openings in the scrotum are closed with small stitches. After a short rest (usually half an hour) you can go home.
Hmmm. Doesn’t sound SO BAD. Let’s continue….
How does vasectomy work?
Sperm are made in a man's testes. During a man's ejaculation the sperm travel through two tubes (vasa deferentia), mix with semen, and come out of the penis. If the sperm
During a vasectomy, these two tubes are cut and blocked so the sperm cannot mix with the semen. Without sperm in his semen, a man can no longer make his partner pregnant.
After a vasectomy, a man still has erections and ejaculates. The amount of fluid in his ejaculations is not different, except there is no sperm. The fluid looks and smells the same. A man's hormones, beard, and voice do not change. His sex drive and ability to have sex do not change. The only change is that he cannot make a woman pregnant.
So I can still get hard? Bust mad nuts and all sensations feel the same? This is sounding more attractive by the moment…
Will vasectomy affect me emotionally?
The decision to end your fertility is not a simple one. You may feel a little uncomfortable about ending the part of your life involved with creating a family. You may feel that you are getting older. These feelings usually pass in time, as you go on to the next stage of your life.
On the other hand, you may feel relieved that the worry about pregnancy is over. You may feel freer and more spontaneous. You may be able to concentrate more on yourself, your children, your job, your partner, and your future.
Damn, just hit the stumbling block. “Ending a part of your life involved with creating a family”. That’s a difficult thought to wrestle with. It’s not as if I NEVER want to have kids. I do ONE DAY want to be a father. But not right now. Not until I’ve found love. It seems so premature to have a vasectomy this young. If only it was temporary. Reversible…
Will vasectomy affect my masculinity?
No. Your body will continue to produce the hormones that make you a man. There will be no change in your beard, your voice, or any other of your male traits. The operation will not cause you to lose strength.
Good…
How will vasectomy affect me sexually?
Probably not at all. Your sexual drive will not change. Your erections and climaxes will be the same. Some men say that without the worry of accidental pregnancy and the bother of other family planning methods, they and their partners find sex more pleasurable and spontaneous. Once in a while a man has sexual problems after the operation. This is almost always emotional rather than because of physical changes.
Interesting…
Can vasectomy be reversed?
Even with improvements in surgical technique, you cannot count on the successful reversal of your vasectomy. The chance that the average man seeking reversal will be able to father a child is much smaller than many published success rates suggest. The reversal operation is more difficult and far more expensive than vasectomy. If you are seriously thinking about reversal now, vasectomy may not be the right step for you at this time.
The million dollar question. Can it be reversed. Apparently the success rate for reversals isn’t very high. Fuck. The person that develops a successful reversal technique will make Bill Gates money look miniscule. It’s interesting that they say that if you are even considering reversal, then a vasectomy is not for you. A vasectomy is so final. Why can’t someone come up with a half way procedure?!
Can I store semen in a sperm bank in case I change my mind?
You cannot be sure that semen stored in a sperm bank will be able to cause a pregnancy at an unknown time in the future. Sperm banking is not fertility insurance, and it is quite expensive. If you are thinking about sperm banks, vasectomy may not be right for you now.
I thought about this option. What if I could just jerk out a bucket of cum (LOL) and have it frozen. Then when I want kids we can thaw it out. Surely with the miracles of modern technology, this is feasible? I hadn’t considered the price of sperm banking. Plus, what if the “bank is robbed”. I don’t want some kid running around with my genes, my likeness, and I not know about it. I don’t believe this. I don’t have ANY options?
It’s wild that I feel this way. By the time father was 30, he had already had me. Life as a father was in full swing for him. My parents were married and did their best to make sure that TOGETHER, they provided me with the most nurturing environment they could provide.
And see, that’s really why I don’t want kids just yet. I haven’t found that someone who I know is going to be that teammate in raising a kid. I don’t want to be simply a “baby daddy”. I want to be a HUSBAND. So part of me feels that I'm running behind on things. My father found love by 30, why can’t I? I understand fatherhood isn’t governed by a time table. There ain’t some alarm saying you have to be a father or else. A man’s fertility last well into his 50’s. Then again, I can’t be having kids at 50; I won’t be around to see them graduate. And who knows what health issues have kicked in by that time. And although men don’t have a clock, women do. Maybe that’s why so many of these hoes feel the need to have kids young. They feel they are racing against the clock.
I've given real consideration to a vasectomy. I mean sit down and thought hard about it. Ultimately, I don’t know what my decision will be. All I can do is hope Miss Right comes along before Mr. Knife.
How does vasectomy work?
Sperm are made in a man's testes. During a man's ejaculation the sperm travel through two tubes (vasa deferentia), mix with semen, and come out of the penis. If the sperm
During a vasectomy, these two tubes are cut and blocked so the sperm cannot mix with the semen. Without sperm in his semen, a man can no longer make his partner pregnant.
After a vasectomy, a man still has erections and ejaculates. The amount of fluid in his ejaculations is not different, except there is no sperm. The fluid looks and smells the same. A man's hormones, beard, and voice do not change. His sex drive and ability to have sex do not change. The only change is that he cannot make a woman pregnant.
So I can still get hard? Bust mad nuts and all sensations feel the same? This is sounding more attractive by the moment…
Will vasectomy affect me emotionally?
The decision to end your fertility is not a simple one. You may feel a little uncomfortable about ending the part of your life involved with creating a family. You may feel that you are getting older. These feelings usually pass in time, as you go on to the next stage of your life.
On the other hand, you may feel relieved that the worry about pregnancy is over. You may feel freer and more spontaneous. You may be able to concentrate more on yourself, your children, your job, your partner, and your future.
Damn, just hit the stumbling block. “Ending a part of your life involved with creating a family”. That’s a difficult thought to wrestle with. It’s not as if I NEVER want to have kids. I do ONE DAY want to be a father. But not right now. Not until I’ve found love. It seems so premature to have a vasectomy this young. If only it was temporary. Reversible…
Will vasectomy affect my masculinity?
No. Your body will continue to produce the hormones that make you a man. There will be no change in your beard, your voice, or any other of your male traits. The operation will not cause you to lose strength.
Good…
How will vasectomy affect me sexually?
Probably not at all. Your sexual drive will not change. Your erections and climaxes will be the same. Some men say that without the worry of accidental pregnancy and the bother of other family planning methods, they and their partners find sex more pleasurable and spontaneous. Once in a while a man has sexual problems after the operation. This is almost always emotional rather than because of physical changes.
Interesting…
Can vasectomy be reversed?
Even with improvements in surgical technique, you cannot count on the successful reversal of your vasectomy. The chance that the average man seeking reversal will be able to father a child is much smaller than many published success rates suggest. The reversal operation is more difficult and far more expensive than vasectomy. If you are seriously thinking about reversal now, vasectomy may not be the right step for you at this time.
The million dollar question. Can it be reversed. Apparently the success rate for reversals isn’t very high. Fuck. The person that develops a successful reversal technique will make Bill Gates money look miniscule. It’s interesting that they say that if you are even considering reversal, then a vasectomy is not for you. A vasectomy is so final. Why can’t someone come up with a half way procedure?!
Can I store semen in a sperm bank in case I change my mind?
You cannot be sure that semen stored in a sperm bank will be able to cause a pregnancy at an unknown time in the future. Sperm banking is not fertility insurance, and it is quite expensive. If you are thinking about sperm banks, vasectomy may not be right for you now.
I thought about this option. What if I could just jerk out a bucket of cum (LOL) and have it frozen. Then when I want kids we can thaw it out. Surely with the miracles of modern technology, this is feasible? I hadn’t considered the price of sperm banking. Plus, what if the “bank is robbed”. I don’t want some kid running around with my genes, my likeness, and I not know about it. I don’t believe this. I don’t have ANY options?
It’s wild that I feel this way. By the time father was 30, he had already had me. Life as a father was in full swing for him. My parents were married and did their best to make sure that TOGETHER, they provided me with the most nurturing environment they could provide.
And see, that’s really why I don’t want kids just yet. I haven’t found that someone who I know is going to be that teammate in raising a kid. I don’t want to be simply a “baby daddy”. I want to be a HUSBAND. So part of me feels that I'm running behind on things. My father found love by 30, why can’t I? I understand fatherhood isn’t governed by a time table. There ain’t some alarm saying you have to be a father or else. A man’s fertility last well into his 50’s. Then again, I can’t be having kids at 50; I won’t be around to see them graduate. And who knows what health issues have kicked in by that time. And although men don’t have a clock, women do. Maybe that’s why so many of these hoes feel the need to have kids young. They feel they are racing against the clock.
I've given real consideration to a vasectomy. I mean sit down and thought hard about it. Ultimately, I don’t know what my decision will be. All I can do is hope Miss Right comes along before Mr. Knife.
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